Si desteapta si frumoasa

Mi-am dat seama ca nu prea am apreciat oamenii care m-au ajutat fara a astepta nimic in schimb. Acestia sunt oameni speciali. Am mai facut-o si eu la randul meu. Dar, atunci cand iubesti un barbat, parca gesturile celorlalti care te iubesc nici nu le mai observi …

Poate, voi putea invata sa iubesc cee ce inca nu iubesc…. Voi invata sa il iubesc, pentru ca merita…si o arata… 🙂

In general, barbatilor le e frica de o femeie care e si desteapta si frumoasa. Exista mai multe motive:

Unu, nu prea le merge vrajeala, minciunile, ascunsul dupa degete. Mai devreme sau mai tarziu totul iese la iveala.

Doi, sunt constienti ca in momentul in care dau gres, ele nu accepta, pleaca fara a se mai uita in spate.

Trei, le e frica de persoana posesiva si geloasa in care se transforma; iar gelozia dusa la extrem, atinge nebunia.

Aceste femei stiu ca sunt ceva mai rar, sunt dorite si apreciate. Iar cand isi dau seama ca relatia in care sunt nu duce spre nimic real, adevarat, nu vad un viitor alaturi de cineva, fug ‘mancand pamantul’  :)) Pentru ca nimeni nu isi doreste cu adevarat o relatie toxica.

Cu toate ca exista mai rar, am vazut si cazuri in care un barbat adevarat isi asuma toate aceste riscuri, si, drept vorbind, cand il vezi, emana atat de multa fericire de zici ca viata lui e o luna de miere pe repeat. El stie sa vada cu adevarat femeia de langa el si sa a o aprecieze. Mai mult, ii face o deosebita placere si simte ca poate cuceri lumea numai cand se plimba alaturi de ea.

Insa, o astfel de femeie trebuie cucerita, iti trebuie tact, rabdare si atentie … imagineaza-ti un general care pregateste planul de razboi, mutari, scheme.

P.S. O femeie adevarata stie ca averea si felul in care arata un barbat sunt trecatoare. Ea se va uita in primul rand la caracter si personalitate. Se gandeste mult si bine, isi imagineaza daca barbatul de langa ea e capabil de a iubi neconditionat si de a ramane alaturi de ea cand viata va fi grea. O femeie poate vedea prin tine si il va alege, chiar si dupa multe incercari, pe cel care ii poate oferi stabilitate, protectie si o familie. O femeie nu alege doar un barbat pentru ea, ci si un tata pentru copii.


Romania Trips

Good evening xx

*Update 3

On my way back from Targu Mureș, I passed through Vama – a beautiful village in Bucovina.

Pensiunea Casa Georgiana

My parents have a rental vacation cabin in the mountains and, every time I feel like I want to escape from the busy life in the city, I go there to relax. Vama is situated between Gura Humorului and Campulung Moldovenesc, very close to the famous Bucovina monasteries, skiing resorts and restaurants offering traditional cuisine. 

Pensiunea Casa Georgiana

*Update 2

  • Trip 2: Suceava – Targu Mureș 
  • This is my second trip in Romania. Heading to Targu Mureș for a doctors appointment. Wish me good luck :* 

#romania #instamood #photography #selfies #familytrip

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Facebook live video

  • Trip 1: Suceava – București
  • I am on a trip from Suceava to Bucharest right now and I want to share with you some pictures with my beautiful home country. 

If you ever decide to visit Romania, you can get in touch with me and I promise to give you the best trip tips. You will definetely have the time of your life xx

*Update 1

  • I’ve finally arrived in Bucharest. Yey!! I’m at the mall now playing darts with my friend. I’ve lost, he’s too good :))

You can check my Facebook page for a live video:

First stop: The city of Brașov

#mountains #easyaccess #goodroads #trip #winter #skiresort #travelpictures #nighttime

I will come back with updates. Keep an eye on my blog. Kisses :* 

Heat of passion

Baby, stop and think for a while
About the earth, the blue sky
That made us smile…
No reason for goodbye
No more wrong directions
Only good intentions.

Just sit down and talk to me awhile
What makes you fantasise?
Is our love just out of style?
Baby, you should realise
I could offer you compassion
Let’s lose ourselves in the heat of passion

                                                  By Ioana S.


Thank you, Jo for these amazing pictures. We really know how to have a good time. Love you loads xx

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Hello my dear readers,

I’m back. I haven’t posted anything for a long time because I’ve been so busy with work, personal projects and social life. One of my objectives for this year is to write a Marketing Blog; I have already written some things and I just need some help with the IT part – coding, domain, creating a nice website. If you know someone who can give me some advice on how to make it happen, drop me a message. Thankss :*

Here are some updates on what I have been doing lately:

  • Someone who likes to read my blog asked me the other day why do I write so much about flirting, relationships, love and family.

My answer is:

‘Because I care’. That’s the truth. Because whenever I find inspiration and love in someone or/and something, I just think about how can I use it to create something beautiful.  Practically, I have never sat down and thought about my next topics, about what else I could write about. The topics have chosen me :)) But his question made me think …

I guess it is because I like to write it down. Also, as a 20-something years old girl, flirting and love are part of my life and I like to share my worst and best experiences with other young people like me.

But, let’s dig further than that. I cannot say I am a relationships expert or anything like that, but what I’ve noticed is that our generation is sh*t at keeping a love relationship alive and, most of all, we are really bad at expressing our feelings. Just draw a comparison between us and our parents. They used to fall in love and form a family at a very young age; my mother got married at 22 and had three kids by 30. We, the 90’s generation, don’t like to make plans in advance without knowing all the issues that might arise along the way and we don’t like to rush things. We think about marriage only when we know for sure we are about to marry a wonderful person who understands and completes us. And the truth is: it’s not our fault and it’s not our parents’ fault. We grew up when technology was at its boom. I was born a few years after the communism ended. We have been taught to concentrate on our careers, to pursue higher education. Do you know how hard it is to have a family and raise a child while taking your final exams?

For some, all this might seem wrong or upsetting but, is it that bad to focus on career first and then family? What I know for sure is that I want to give my future kids everything they need, food, clothes and love. And it all comes down to money.

What I am actually concerned about is future generations. What about them? Will they ever get to know the complex notions of love and family?

I appreciate any kind of feedback and I love it when others share their knowledge with me. So, feel free to start a conversation with me about this topic.

  • Quotes of the day:

“I am not easy to be understood. I’ve spent years trying to understand myself and to love myself. So, I don’t have the patience to explain myself to anyone anymore. As someone once told me – some people get you from the first time they look at you and others can’t figure you out no matter how many conversations you have.  You either get me, or you don’t. I will know you are ‘the one’ when you’ve seen the ugly parts of me and you’re staying. Don’t think you know my next move…because you don’t.” (Ioana S.)

People always say, “Don’t let other people determine your happiness.” How can you be expected to do that when so much of your happiness comes from the people around you? What is your contentment if not for those connections and those shared moments? (Elite daily)

  • Scrisori de dragoste:

“Draga Radu,

Te-aș aprecia mult mai tare dacă ai avea curajul să îmi spui lucrurile acestea în față. Nu te teme. Nu mai sunt atat de fragilă pe cât credeai tu. Mă descurc, am să trec și peste asta cu bine. Nu e o mare tragedie. Toți băieții se mai uită după o fată, două, trei … mai întorc capul pe stradă după o blondă frumușică cu ochi albaștri; asta în timp ce acasă, poate îi așteaptă ‘femeia perfectă’. Am întâlnit multe specimene care fac parte din această categorie. Din păcate, ei nu se vor putea numi niciodată bărbați; nu cred că înțeleg prea bine această noțiune. Trist dar adevarat.

Îți doresc multă fericire alături de ‘păpuși’!

Cu dezamăgire,

Ioana S.



This is all for tonight! Going to listen to some nice music, take a warm bath and drink a glass of red wine. 

Good night! Kisses :* xxx

Ed Sheeran – Shape of You





Chose what You Love, then Love what You’ve chosen…

Today I’ve learnt a lot. Not everything is as it seems. People may break their promises, leave and never look back. What matters the most is who you trust and love. However, it comes a time when you need to let go, forgive and focus only on the positive aspects of your life. Be grateful for what you have now; thank God for what He has given you so far, be at peace with yourself and keep striving for a better future, a better tomorrow.

Today, I discovered:

  1. What calms me down: a good song Reamonn – Supergirl
  2. That a sincere compliment can give confidence, balance and a positive spin to the day. You are smart and beautiful. You are brave. You are beautiful. You are loyal. You are strong. You have faith. God loves you and He will never let you down.
  3. Never give up on your dreams. If you want to do something, just do it. If you want to travel the world, get on the next train. If you feel like you need a change of scenery, don’t think twice. Act on your instinct. If you want to switch careers, do it. Make it happen. The power is in YOU.
  4. When it comes to making big decisions, such as choosing your life partner, studies show that you are best off deciding from the gut. “When your intuition signals that you’ve found something or someone truly right for you, the choice often becomes strangely easy”. (5 Gut Instincts You shouldn’t Ignore, )

You know you love me.

XOXO   – I.S.

P.S.  –  :*<3

I’ll give you everything

Your love is all I need

Baby, why can’t you see

What’s been happening behind the scenes?!

Help me hold on

Hello my dear readers!

Today I want to share with you a beautiful voice and a wonderful song. Released in 1990, “Help me hold on” is a song written and sang by Travis Tritt.

Travis Tritt is an american actor, songwriter and country music singer. His music is beautiful and goes straight to your heart. As a result of his good work, he has received two Grammy Awards.

The song is a ballad which reveals a failing relationship. The narrator confesses his mistakes to his lover and begs her not to leave him. He asks her to pinpoint his faults and promises to listen to her this time. He admits being wrong for taking her love for granted. Taking your love for granted is so dangerous in a relationship. You fail to properly appreciate someone dear to you, mainly because you became so familiar with each other. Therefore, you stop trying, you stop showing how much you love him/her. This is such a shame.

Listen here to the song and below I’ve written down the lyrics.

Baby, close that suitcase you’ve been packin’
Just sit down and talk to me awhile
I know you tried to tell me what was lackin’
But I guess I must have missed it by a mile


Well, this time girl I swear to you I’ll listen
Help me understand where I went wrong
It’s hard to find myself in this position
Scared that I’ll go crazy once you’re gone


Help me hold on to what we had
Once our love was strong, it can be again
You said it takes two to make love last
You were right all along, so help me hold on


What have I got to do to make it better
What have I got to do to make you see
That even though I promised you forever
I never knew how hard that would be


I realize I took your love for granted
But I’ve learned that love worth having don’t come free
And I’ll pay any price it takes to keep you
Satisfied and staying here with me


Help me hold on to what we had
Once our love was strong, it can be again
You said it takes two to make love last
You were right all along, so help me hold on

A New Beginning

That moment when you have to start over … that moment when you know it’s time to turn the page. A New Beginning.

It hurts but, it is also very exciting. It makes me sad because everything I’ve ever known is long gone. It’s in the past, I cannot change it. I am left with memories, good and bad times. I won’t lie; it’s tough to start over again. It takes a lot of strength and courage.

I say it’s exciting to start over because I’ll learn and explore new things. Things I’ve been dying to try for years, such as volunteering for a good cause. I’m sure that starting over will bring more creativity and success in my life. And, why not, a new love.